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Essentials of Mindfulness
Centers for Spiritual Living
Instructor ~ Cayce Howe
“Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”
~ Viktor frankl
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Class 1 Summary
What is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness is:
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learning to pay attention
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to the present moment
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on purpose
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without judgement
Unpacking Mindfulness Meditation: A Detailed Guide to Understanding and Practicing
Introduction:
Mindfulness meditation has become a popular practice in recent years, but what exactly is it? We will delve into the various aspects of mindfulness meditation, using the definition provided by Jon Kabat-Zinn as our foundation. By understanding the core elements of paying attention to the present moment, on purpose, non-judgmentally, we can gain insight into the true essence of mindfulness meditation and learn how to incorporate it into our lives.
1. Paying Attention:
- Mindfulness meditation is all about paying attention to our experiences and the present moment.
- Although it may seem obvious, paying attention can be challenging in our fast-paced lives.
- Notice how often we go through daily activities without truly being present.
- The quote by Da Vinci reminds us of the importance of truly seeing, feeling, and hearing our surroundings.
“An average human looks without seeing, listens without hearing, touches without feeling, eats without tasting, moves without physical awareness, inhales without awareness of odour or fragrance, and talks without thinking.”
2. The Present Moment:
- Mindfulness sets itself apart from other meditation techniques by focusing on the present moment.
- While other techniques may involve specific objects or visualizations, mindfulness invites us to be aware of what arises naturally in the present moment.
- This aspect makes mindfulness meditation highly flexible and portable, allowing us to practice it in various situations.
3. On Purpose:
Mindfulness emphasizes being intentionally present in the moment.- Unlike unconscious habits or instinctual reactions, practicing mindfulness involves consciously choosing to pay attention.- Recognize that our experiences and choices are not merely driven by external stimuli, but by our deliberate intention to be present.
4. Non-Judgmental Awareness:
- One of the key elements of mindfulness meditation is cultivating a non-judgmental attitude.
- This aspect can be challenging since our minds tend to label experiences as good or bad, pleasant or unpleasant.
- However, mindfulness encourages us to observe and notice experiences without judgment, allowing them to be as they are.
- By practicing non-judgmental awareness, we free ourselves from the habitual tendency to self-identify with the contents of our awareness.
The Yoga of Space:
Mindfulness meditation can be compared to the yoga of space, as described in Tibetan teachings. Instead of setting up specific parameters or conditions, mindfulness allows us to observe and be aware of whatever arises without labeling it as a distraction.By adopting this approach, we can maintain continuity in our mindfulness practice even when external factors change.
Experiencing Mindfulness:
- Mindfulness is an experiential practice that cannot be fully described or understood through words alone.
- Just as hearing about a vacation is not the same as being there, mindfulness meditation requires personal engagement and direct experience.
- Embrace the invitation to practice mindfulness and discover the transformative effects it can have on your life.
Freedom and Choice:
- Mindfulness meditation empowers us to become the masters of our minds rather than their servants.
- By cultivating non-judgmental awareness and intentional presence, we gain the ability to choose how we respond to our thoughts, emotions, and external circumstances.
- This freedom allows us to nurture what serves us and let go of what doesn't, leading to a greater sense of liberation and peace.
Posture
Correct posture for sitting on the ground and in a chair.
Some key reminders include:
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keeping the hips above the knees
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putting support under 'floating knees'
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keeping the upper body dignified but not rigid with chest nice and open.
Meditation Misconceptions
Below are some common misconceptions about meditation. We have all had them; or currently have them, or we think that we have overcome them only to find them resurfacing.
Do you have any expectation towards your meditations that sound like these below?
1. “During meditation my mind should be calm and quiet.” (yeah right)
2. “It feels like meditation is making my mind more crazy.”
It does seem like that; yet in actuality we are waking up to what is already there. It is like opening up a secret door in your house that you did not know was there and finding it a mess. The rest of the house could have been spotless, yet here was this room that needed cleaning. Remember when you find this, that the only way to clean it up is to do the work. Meditation is the work.
3. “Meditation should be blissful, but it feels like a lot of work.”
Meditation should not be anything at all. If we come into it with that attitude we will not be able to tastes its true sweetness, we will only be playing with our ideas about it, and weather it is meeting our expectation or not.
4. “Meditation must not work for me. I haven’t had any results yet.”
Again, if we look for results, it is a great way not to find them. Furthermore, we are not looking for results, we are looking to explore what we truly are, we are exploring the truth of things as they are. And as the saying goes; "let truth set you free"
Homework Daily Practice
Week 1 Breath Meditation
Seated practice - Minimum 10 minutes daily. Guided meditation links above.
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Develop Routine (this may be the hardest part) - Rise Pee Meditate (R.PM.) is best but see what works for you
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If you don't have time, just sit for one breath to keep building the new habit
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Remember to practice with kindness!
The Wandering Mind
Does your mind ever wander? Great, you are alive and human!
The fact that the mind wanders is as common as the desire for food or sleep. The human mind just does. The mind will produce thoughts on its own. But that does not mean you won't be able to meditate.
Here is an excerpt from a renowned Tibetan meditation master "When you first begin to meditate, the movement of thoughts may feel like a rushing waterfall. But as you continue to apply the technique of recognizing thoughts and returning your focus to the breath, the torrent slows down to a river, then to a meandering stream, which eventually flows into a deep, calm ocean."
If you are out of shape and begin an exercise routine, the first few sessions may be less than fun. In fact, you may feel worse than you did before you started. This is just part of starting an exercise regimen. Similarly, recognizing one's active mind is simply part of the process when it comes to meditation.
The good news is that the mind will settle eventually… the better news is that even when the mind is active it will not be a problem. Mindfulness is the practice of non-judgmental awareness, and that goes for our relationship with thoughts too.
The great Zen master, Suzuki Roshi would say "It's ok to have thoughts, just don't think anything of them". So, as thoughts arise, remind yourself that it's ok to have them and they can be observed just like anything else, just as another "something" arising within your awareness
Bonus Read - Non-Judgment and Mindfulness
One aspect of mindfulness is non-judgment. It’s the key to the whole process. We are not only tuning into the present moment but opening to it with an attitude of non-judgment; opening to it as it is. This is the real essence of mindfulness: learning to open to what is arising, just paying attention to it a little more closely–even to what is uncomfortable.
You can sense how non-judgment–this ability to shift into noticing things as they are–might automatically releases some tension. This is because the tension, the stress, comes from resistance: resisting what is arising, resisting the moment. We tune in to the tension in our body or to the uncomfortable emotions we might be feeling. Noticing those sensations and tuning in to what is arising can help us to start to release it. To let it unwind. And then the tension can start to pass.
When we tune into the sensations and into what is actually happening, we are automatically bringing ourselves out of the world of thought. We can’t be caught up in thought and pay attention to the present moment at the same time. It is our thoughts about things that stir up the tension. So coming into this moment, and opening to it as it is, is a huge relief. This is the practice of non-judgment, and this is a key aspect of mindfulness.
What we begin to notice, when we are practicing mindfulness and non-judgment, is that our judgments are happening all the time. They are constant. We are constantly resisting aspects of the present moment or things that irritate or annoy us, or make us uncomfortable or uneasy. By opening to those experiences, to those things that we are resisting, by opening to the judgment, we have an opportunity to release judgment, and, therefore, to release the tension.
We begin to realize when we are judging the moment, judging another person, judging ourselves, or judging our environment or situation. We notice that we want something to be different than how it is. Then, we can move beyond judgment by simply noticing and not judging it. We can say to ourselves, “Well, I’m judging my reality right now,” or “I’m resisting my reality.” Noticing this automatically begins to open us up to non-judgment. This is our opportunity to shift it, to shift into just being with it, just feeling it.
One of the things we tend to judge the most is ourselves. This is a key source of our suffering. When things are not going well in our life, or when something is not right, we often look for someone to blame, and a lot of the time we blame ourselves. We criticize ourselves, thinking, “You are such an idiot,” or “You are so lazy.” This critical voice can arise. By beginning to notice these judgments of ourselves, we begin to see how they add additional tension, stress and suffering to the situation.
They make a difficult situation even worse. When we notice a self-judgment arising, it is an opportunity to notice it, to open to it and to say, “Oh, I’m judging myself.” By not judging the judgment, by just being with how it makes you feel, by coming into the sensations, we drop out of the critical thoughts and back into the moment; back into the body.
Non-judgment is an attitude that we bring into our awareness of the present moment. There are a few other attitudes that we can bring into the practice, in addition to non-judgment, such as an attitude of care, or an attitude of appreciation. These are additional ways of enhancing the mindfulness practice that allow us to really open our hearts to the present moment.
Class 2 Summary
In class 2 we explored the practice of Loving-Kindness, or in Pali "Metta". This practice helps us develop a happy, peaceful mind. A kind loving heart, and a clear positive mind go hand in hand.
Phrases like, "may I be happy", "may you be healthy", etc., are directed to others and ourselves, setting an attitude, rather than any goal. To cultivate wisdom, we learn to "see things as they really are", and because life is often hard, we learn to actively support and love ourselves along the way through the cultivation of kindness. We are learning to shift from human "doers" into human "beings", which is crucial for real change and healing to take place.
The full practice includes directing these well wishing intentions towards - yourself, friend, neutral person, difficult person, and all beings.
Phrases
Long set:
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May you be safe and protected from inner and outer harm.The inner harm of a negative mind, and outer physical harm
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May you be happy, truly happy
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May you be healthy and strong – and if this is not possible may you accept your limitations with grace.
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May you live with the ease of well-being.
Short set:
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May you be safe
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May you be happy
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May you be healthy
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May you live with ease
A Few Notes
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For you it may be better to start with dear friend, pet, child, admired public figure.
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Some people like the metta practice others find it difficult but it "works" either way.
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Purification... when we practice metta other feelings come up. This is natural!
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When we practice metta we can notice all our negative thoughts and feelings. When this happens bring mindfulness to whatever feeling is there and return to your phrase. Any feeling or judgment can be held in kindness. There is no need to struggle against or create internal conflict just notice what is there and return to your phrases with kindness.
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Use metta creatively in your life off the cushion. Offer phrases in the grocery store, traffic, before you answer your phone, before you speak.
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You can practice metta at the beginning or end of a mindfulness practice.
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Bring mindfulness to your metta practice. Check in periodically to what is happening in your heart right now.
Just Like Me
Expanding the circle of compassion is something that is absolutely essential for our well being. So much of our stress in life is due to a feeling of alienation. It is easy to see the suffering that arises when we judge others and the peacefulness that arises when we see the good on others.
So what makes us judge others? What make us judge ourselves? Of course the idea of separation and separateness is a key component. We can work on this by reflecting on interdependence. From the food we buy to the clothes we wear, we are dependent and connect to others.
Here is the life cycle of a pair of jeans for example:
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Cotton production
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Spinning
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Dyeing of warp-yarns
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Weaving
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Garment production
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Finishing
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Packaging
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Transport
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Use
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Care and maintenance
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End-of-life
Now, just thinking of all the people that had to do with this process, and thinking of a pair of pants that you own. There have been countless people connected to those pants. The individuals that had direct contact, their families and friends, etc.
There is an old saying that says, "Even to be famous you need someone to talk about you". We never do anything alone, nor does anything we do not affect the whole on some level.
That means that if you are not happy, than neither I'm I. If I am to be truly happy it behoves me to look out for the happiness of others. Maybe this is why compassion feels so good?
The second things we can look at is how similar we all are. Our motivations, our desires, our fears; they have so many similarities. I'm always comforted and surprised in larger groups when the sharing of challenges comes up and how many of the shares are almost identical. Rich, poor, old, young- all the same.
For this we can do a reflection simply called, "Just Like Me".
Here is one version of it below. You can think about these words in regards to anyone. It can be a stranger that you see on the street, a difficult person, or a loved one.
"This person (that you are thinking about or in front of you) was once a little child, a little vulnerable child, just like me, and this person has had happy times in their life... just like me. and this person has loved someone... just like me. This person is creative and dynamic… just like me, and this person has had their heart broken... just like me.
This person has their measure of sorrows, like all human beings, just like me. This person has been hurt and confused and disappointed by life... just like me. This person has done some things they regret, just like me. This person has had beautiful moments.. just like me. This person wants to be safe and well and loved, just like me.
This person will take many roles as a child and an elder, a student and a teacher, a friend and enemy, a leader and follower, foolish and wise... just like me.
Let yourself picture this person’s happiest moments as a child running and laughing and playing, they still and will always carry this free spirit, just like me.
and in this great dance of life may your joy and the causes of your joy increase. I wish you strength and support and well being because i know you want to be well and happy and joyful, just like me. I celebrate the mystery of your human life."
Maybe They’ve Got Pies
There are simple ways we can shape our experiences to include more compassion. I have a teacher, for example, who bakes beautiful pies on Thanksgiving to bring to her family gathering. When it comes time to transport them, she has to be very careful. She drives slowly and cautiously. Other drivers, unaware of her precious cargo, don’t seem to appreciate when she drives so gingerly. You can imagine the line of frustrated drivers stuck behind her.
There are other times throughout the year when she finds herself sitting, irritated, behind a driver moving too slowly for her liking or one taking a little to long to respond to a green light. One day she caught herself feeling upset at another driver and realized that she has been that person. At least one day a year, she has been the slow driver holding up the others. “That’s me,” she thought. “I’ve been there. Maybe they’re moving slowly because they’re carrying precious cargo. Maybe they’ve got pies.”
She caught herself in a moment of suffering, as a result of her irritation and frustration. Turning mindful attention on how she felt created spaciousness. In this space, she was able to choose. She used compassion for herself and non-judgment to turn her suffering into understanding. She transformed the tension that she felt into the recognition that she and the other driver are actually the same.
Every day there are countless opportunities to use mindful awareness to access the empathy that lives within us. If we can continue to open to awareness, compassion can reveal itself in a myriad of situations- maybe turning a frustrating drive home into a tender-hearted memory of family; and yummy pies!
Homework
- Practice these phrases formally and informally. Follow the links below for the formal practice guided meditations.
- For the informal practice, send metta to yourself throughout the day, send it to others while driving, waiting in line, or just walking past people on the street.
- Bring your daily formal practice up to 20 minutes a day if you can. Link below
https://soundcloud.com/user-640037458/a-year-of-the-heart-loving-kindness-20-min
- Have fun, smile, hug people, pet animals, say I love you... water the seeds of your positive mind!
20 Minutes Loving Kindness Meditation
Here is a "Just for fun" meditation. This is not a traditional Metta practice, but can be a soothing nonetheless. I'm happy to share music by my good friend and brilliant musician, Lynda Arnold (aka DivaSonic) on this track.
Class 3 Summary
The Meditation this week is a Tibetan Vipassana style practice
We think we see “things”
1. No-thing: There is no “thing” in the “thing”
2. Impermanence: All phenomena are impermanent, so what we are looking at cannot be permanent and fixed as a single thing- because by the time we label it, it has already changed.
3. Interdependence: What we see is interdependent. It arises due to other things (or technically other "non-things").
No-thing
We spoke in class about how there is "no thing in the thing". We can look at a phone but there is not a single part that is the phone.
We can look at all things in this way. Where is the car in the car? A car is a collection of parts. We don’t see the collection of parts, but we see it as the label we give it. When we look at our hands, we don’t see the bones and the flesh, we see a hand, again forgetting that although it functions as a hand there is no hand in the hand. Furthermore we cannot find the exact location where the hand ends and the wrist starts.
This is really important because the label we give something is not only what we see, but also what we are attached to. In other words since we think it is that, when it changes or stops acting the way in which we labeled it, this can cause frustration, confusion and most of all, the inability to see it as it really is.
Take a car for example, when a car stops functioning like a car, we get upset, because the car’s function is to take us from A to B. When the car doesn’t turn on, it is frustrating because it is a transportation device.
This is how everything is, a collection of labels. We do this with people, with our husband or wife, parents, and friends. Has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever been broken? Or husband or wife? Because they have a function. If the boyfriend quality is broken, you say, “You know what, I’ve labelled you boyfriend, and you’re broken, you’re not working because a boyfriend is supposed to bring me flowers, talk nice to me, do all these things.
But you’re not. Your “boyfriend-ness” is broken. Now this person is a collection of thoughts, emotions, body sensations, memories etc. That very label of boyfriend or girlfriend and what it means is particular to mind perceiving it.
Inherently, from their own side, they are not that. They are much, much more; an infinity more. They are a son, a daughter, a brother, a sister, a friend. They’re not one permanent fixed thing. What we are doing here is to seeing that what we grasp onto as solid, is actually in flux. They’re not as solid as we think.
Impermanence
All conditioned things are impermanent, no matter what we attach ourselves to, they’re all impermanent. Even though we know this, we don’t "know" this. We don’t carry this knowing with us. We are surprised by impermanence and we continue to draw lines around people and phenomena, even though they are constantly changing.
A tree can become a log, then a plank, then a door, then trash or firewood for example.
I was a caregiver for the elderly, and woman who would frequently come visit her mom said to me,"that's not my mom". Her mom at that time was in her 80's. When the daughter looked at her mom and interacted with her, she was not the mom she had labeled and stored in her mind. She forgot that her mom was once a five year old, and then a teen, and then a young mom. At what point exactly was her mom her mom?
Interdependence
Forgetting interdependence is another way attachment arises and it is also how these labels are formed in the first place. It is how we construct “thing-ness”.
Does the number 3 exist without 2 and 4? No. Because of 2 and 4, 3 exists. But 3 doesn’t exist in and of itself. It’s dependent on something else to arise. Like this everything we see is dependent on our own mind to arise; there is a subject and object. And how it arises, or I should say what it arises as, is up to us.
For example, I have a Tibetan singing bowl. For me, the bowl is mine, and I have a history with it. For everyone else it is arising differently because of your own history or non-history of Tibetan singing bowls. Of course even this label is silly because most of the world has no idea what a “Tibetan singing bowl” is and might have a different view of it all together. On it’s own it is not a “Tibetan singing bowl.” That is our label and it is dependent on our own minds and many other factors for it to manifest like that for us.
If you look out into the ocean and you see a small boat, you only see a small boat because there’s a bigger boat behind it. Is this idea of small boat solid or not? Yes, it’s true, relatively speaking that’s a big boat or a small boat. No problem with that. The problem is that when we start believing that this is true in an ultimate way, that we become attached to the idea of it being solid and universally true.
What does this have to do with suffering less?
Ultimately, there is a suffering when we see with"wrong view". There is a suffering from the belief of separation. But that is only a belief in self and other. Like Anam Thubten mentioned, the idea that "I’m not secure already", that’s a belief. We can never not be secure, we can never not be love. It’s a belief of separation.
The separation comes from the endless labels, not from reality, and forgetting that they are paradoxically all true (to the perceiver) and all false, because they are not universally true for all of us.
If we remember however, that we are all seeing things differently due to different past experiences and associations etc, our hearts can open, we kind find empathy and compassion waiting for us- right beyond those silly labels.
A little preview.. we will cover the hinderances in detail this coming week
The Five Hindrances
The five hindrances are a set of mental factors that can obstruct the development of concentration and wisdom in Buddhist practice. These hindrances are considered to be major obstacles on the path to enlightenment and are therefore an important area of focus for meditation and other spiritual practices.
The five hindrances are:
Sensual Desire
Sensual desire refers to the craving for pleasure, especially in relation to the five senses (sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch). It includes the desire for sexual pleasure, the desire for delicious food or drink, the desire for beautiful sights and sounds, and the like. When we are caught up in sensual desire, we become distracted from our spiritual practice and our ability to concentrate and gain insight is diminished.
Ill-Will
Ill-will refers to feelings of aversion, hatred, anger, and resentment. It includes thoughts of revenge, bitterness, and the desire to harm others. When we are consumed by ill-will, our ability to cultivate compassion, loving-kindness, and other positive qualities is hindered.
Sloth and Torpor
Sloth and torpor refer to feelings of sluggishness, lethargy, and dullness. It includes physical and mental fatigue, drowsiness, and boredom. When we are experiencing sloth and torpor, our ability to concentrate and be mindful is reduced, and we may find it difficult to engage in spiritual practices.
Restlessness and Worry
Restlessness and worry refer to feelings of anxiety, agitation, and distraction. It includes racing thoughts, worry about the future, and feeling scattered and unfocused. When we are consumed by restlessness and worry, our ability to concentrate and be present is diminished, and we may find it difficult to cultivate stillness and inner peace.
Doubt
Doubt refers to feelings of uncertainty, skepticism, and indecision. It includes doubt about the teachings, doubt about one's own abilities, and doubt about the spiritual path. When we are plagued by doubt, our ability to engage in spiritual practice and develop insight is hindered.
To overcome the five hindrances, Buddhists use a variety of spiritual practices, including mindfulness, concentration, and insight meditation. By cultivating mindfulness and awareness of the present moment, we can become more attuned to the presence of the hindrances and develop strategies for working with them. By cultivating concentration and insight, we can develop the mental clarity and stability needed to overcome the hindrances and gain insight into the nature of reality.
Class 4 Summary
During breath meditation, the noting practice can be a valuable technique to deepen mindfulness and concentration. As you sit comfortably with an upright posture, bring your attention to the natural rhythm of your breath. Observe the inhalation and exhalation without trying to control it. As thoughts, bodily sensations, or emotions arise, gently note them in a non-judgmental manner. For example, if a thought arises, mentally label it as "thinking." If you feel an itch, label it as "itching." Then, gently redirect your focus back to the breath. By noting and labeling these experiences, you develop a clear awareness of the arising and passing away of various mental and physical phenomena. This noting practice helps cultivate mindfulness, preventing your mind from wandering off into distractions and strengthening your ability to stay present with the breath. Over time, this deepening mindfulness enhances your meditative experience, fostering a sense of inner calm, clarity, and insight.
In Buddhism, the "Five Hindrances" refer to mental factors or states of mind that hinder our progress on the path to enlightenment and inner peace. Instead of listing them, I'll discuss "noting" and why learning about the Five Hindrances is essential in Buddhist practice.
"Noting" is a meditation technique commonly used in various Buddhist traditions, particularly in Vipassana or Insight Meditation. The practice involves observing and mentally acknowledging the arising and passing away of thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and other mental phenomena as they occur in the present moment. Rather than getting entangled in these experiences, practitioners cultivate a non-reactive and non-judgmental awareness of them.
Understanding the Five Hindrances and employing the technique of noting go hand in hand. When we note the presence of these hindrances in our minds, we become more aware of their detrimental effects and the ways they obstruct our spiritual growth.
The Five Hindrances are:
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Sensory desire: Craving for pleasant experiences or sensory pleasures.
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Ill will or aversion: Feelings of anger, resentment, or hostility.
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Sloth and torpor: Laziness, lethargy, and dullness of mind.
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Restlessness and worry: Unsettled mind, agitation, and anxiety.
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Doubt: Doubting the path or one's own abilities.
Noting helps us recognize when these hindrances arise in our consciousness. By doing so, we can develop insight into their impermanent and unsatisfactory nature, as well as their inherent emptiness. This understanding is crucial because:
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Awareness: Noting helps us develop a heightened sense of awareness and mindfulness, making us more present and attentive to our mental states.
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Self-discovery: Through noting, we gain deeper insights into our minds, identifying patterns of thoughts and emotions that contribute to our suffering.
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Wisdom: Recognizing the impermanence and unsatisfactory nature of the Five Hindrances enables us to develop wisdom and discernment, which are fundamental in Buddhist practice.
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Freedom: By understanding the hindrances, we gain the ability to gradually release ourselves from their grip and achieve a sense of inner freedom.
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Mental purification: Noting allows us to purify the mind by acknowledging and gradually letting go of unwholesome mental states, thus paving the way for positive transformations.
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Meditative progress: Overcoming the hindrances is essential for making progress in meditation and deepening one's spiritual experience.
Ultimately, learning about the Five Hindrances and practicing noting leads to the development of a calm, clear, and focused mind. This mental clarity and equanimity enable us to cultivate higher states of consciousness and move us closer to the ultimate goal of Buddhism: the liberation from suffering (Nirvana) and the realization of our true nature.
More on The Five Hindrances
The five hindrances are a set of mental factors that can obstruct the development of concentration and wisdom in Buddhist practice. These hindrances are considered to be major obstacles on the path to enlightenment and are therefore an important area of focus for meditation and other spiritual practices.
The five hindrances are:
Sensual Desire
Sensual desire refers to the craving for pleasure, especially in relation to the five senses (sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch). It includes the desire for sexual pleasure, the desire for delicious food or drink, the desire for beautiful sights and sounds, and the like. When we are caught up in sensual desire, we become distracted from our spiritual practice and our ability to concentrate and gain insight is diminished.
Ill-Will
Ill-will refers to feelings of aversion, hatred, anger, and resentment. It includes thoughts of revenge, bitterness, and the desire to harm others. When we are consumed by ill-will, our ability to cultivate compassion, loving-kindness, and other positive qualities is hindered.
Sloth and Torpor
Sloth and torpor refer to feelings of sluggishness, lethargy, and dullness. It includes physical and mental fatigue, drowsiness, and boredom. When we are experiencing sloth and torpor, our ability to concentrate and be mindful is reduced, and we may find it difficult to engage in spiritual practices.
Restlessness and Worry
Restlessness and worry refer to feelings of anxiety, agitation, and distraction. It includes racing thoughts, worry about the future, and feeling scattered and unfocused. When we are consumed by restlessness and worry, our ability to concentrate and be present is diminished, and we may find it difficult to cultivate stillness and inner peace.
Doubt
Doubt refers to feelings of uncertainty, skepticism, and indecision. It includes doubt about the teachings, doubt about one's own abilities, and doubt about the spiritual path. When we are plagued by doubt, our ability to engage in spiritual practice and develop insight is hindered.
To overcome the five hindrances, Buddhists use a variety of spiritual practices, including mindfulness, concentration, and insight meditation. By cultivating mindfulness and awareness of the present moment, we can become more attuned to the presence of the hindrances and develop strategies for working with them. By cultivating concentration and insight, we can develop the mental clarity and stability needed to overcome the hindrances and gain insight into the nature of reality.
What's Next: The Seven Factors of Awakening
The Seven Factors of Awakening are essential aspects of the Buddhist path that play a crucial role in deepening spiritual growth and attaining enlightenment.
Each factor complements the others, creating a powerful synergy to enhance one's meditative practice and daily life. Mindfulness is the foundation, anchoring us in the present moment and fostering a clear awareness of our experiences. Investigation of phenomena encourages curiosity and a deep exploration of the nature of reality.
Energy fuels our dedication to practice, overcoming obstacles and cultivating diligence. Joy arises as we witness the positive transformation that meditation brings, inspiring and uplifting us. Tranquility allows us to experience inner peace and stillness, calming the restlessness of the mind. Concentration sharpens our focus, leading to one-pointedness and increased clarity.
Lastly, Equanimity helps us face life's ups and downs with grace, maintaining balance and harmony amidst change. Together, these factors empower practitioners to unravel the bonds of suffering, leading to greater wisdom, compassion, and the ultimate goal of liberation. Embracing the Seven Factors of Awakening nurtures a holistic and enriching spiritual journey, guiding us towards true freedom and profound self-realization.
The Seven Factors of Awakening
The first factor is Mindfulness (sati), which forms the foundation of the entire path. Mindfulness involves nonjudgmental awareness of the present moment, observing thoughts, sensations, and emotions with clarity and equanimity. It cultivates a deep understanding of impermanence and interdependence, bringing greater insight and wisdom.
Investigation of Phenomena (dhamma-vicaya) is the second factor, encouraging an inquisitive and discerning mind. Practitioners explore the nature of reality, investigating the arising and passing away of phenomena, and examining their own experiences to gain profound insights into the true nature of existence.
Energy (viriya) is the third factor, representing a passionate and persistent effort on the spiritual path. It involves the diligent cultivation of wholesome qualities, the abandonment of unwholesome habits, and the courage to face challenges with determination and vigor.
The fourth factor is Joy (pīti), a deep sense of rapture and delight that arises from a wholesome and concentrated mind. Joy uplifts the spirit, nourishes the heart, and strengthens the motivation to continue on the path, allowing for greater clarity and serenity.
Tranquility (passaddhi) is the fifth factor, encompassing a profound calmness and stillness of the mind. It arises through the development of concentration and deepening mindfulness, leading to a tranquil and focused state that allows for insight and liberation to unfold.
Concentration (samādhi) is the sixth factor, signifying a unified and collected mind. Through the cultivation of concentration, practitioners gather and stabilize their mental faculties, enabling deep states of absorption and insight. Concentration serves as a powerful tool for overcoming distractions and cultivating a sustained focus.The seventh and final factor is
Equanimity (upekkhā), representing an impartial and balanced mind. Equanimity allows practitioners to maintain calmness and stability in the face of changing circumstances and experiences. It transcends attachment and aversion, leading to a state of profound equanimity and unconditional acceptance.The cultivation and integration of these Seven Factors of Awakening enable individuals to navigate the spiritual path with wisdom, clarity, and serenity. As these factors deepen, they lead to the realization of profound insight, liberation from suffering, and the attainment of ultimate peace and awakening.
Class 5 Summary
This Weeks Meditation: 15 minutes Mindfulness Of Emotion Meditation with my dear friend, Celeste Young.
The meditation emphasizes the importance of approaching emotions with an open heart, devoid of judgment, and with kindness. By grounding oneself in mindful awareness, one can directly experience emotions, identify feelings, and allow them to exist without resistance. The practice encourages a sense of curiosity and presence when investigating these emotional experiences.
Review of the Four Foundations of Mindfulness
The Four Foundations of Mindfulness, also known as the Satipatthana Sutta, are fundamental teachings in the Buddhist tradition. They provide a comprehensive framework for the practice of mindfulness and insight meditation. Here is a summary of each foundation:
1. Mindfulness of the Body: The first foundation emphasizes developing mindfulness by observing and investigating the body. Practitioners are encouraged to be fully present with the body, observing its posture, movements, and sensations. This includes being aware of breathing, walking, and the various bodily activities. By cultivating mindfulness of the body, one develops a deeper understanding of its impermanence, interdependence, and the absence of a fixed self.
2. Mindfulness of Feelings: The second foundation involves being mindful of the different feelings that arise within our experience. Feelings are categorized into three types: pleasant, unpleasant, and neutral. The practitioner learns to observe these feelings without clinging to or rejecting them, recognizing their transient nature. By developing this mindfulness, one gains insight into the nature of craving and aversion, which underlie much of our suffering.
3. Mindfulness of Mind: The third foundation focuses on cultivating awareness of the mind itself—its states, qualities, and tendencies. This includes being mindful of the various mental states such as greed, anger, compassion, joy, and equanimity. The practitioner learns to observe the mind without judgment or attachment, and to recognize the causes and effects of different mental states. By cultivating mindfulness of the mind, one gains insight into the factors that contribute to suffering and the conditions that support well-being.
4. Mindfulness of Dhammas: The fourth foundation encompasses the mindfulness of various mental objects or phenomena. This includes observing the five aggregates (form, feeling, perception, mental formations, and consciousness), the six sense bases (eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, and mind), the Four Noble Truths, the hindrances (such as desire, aversion, and doubt), and the factors of enlightenment (such as mindfulness, investigation, and concentration). By practicing mindfulness of dhammas, one develops a deeper understanding of the nature of reality and the path to liberation.
The Four Foundations of Mindfulness provide practitioners with a comprehensive framework for cultivating mindfulness and developing insight into the nature of existence. By observing the body, feelings, mind, and various mental phenomena, individuals gain a more profound understanding of the impermanence, unsatisfactoriness, and non-self nature of all phenomena. This understanding leads to the cultivation of wisdom, liberation from suffering, and the realization of true freedom.
The Triangle of Awareness
The Triangle of Awareness, offers a transformative framework for exploring the interconnected nature of thoughts, emotions, body sensations, and the underlying foundation of awareness itself. This triangle invites individuals to cultivate a deep understanding of their inner experiences and fosters a path towards greater well-being and resilience. At the base of the triangle lies awareness, the spacious and nonjudgmental presence that holds and embraces all experiences. Through mindfulness practices, individuals learn to cultivate a receptive and compassionate awareness, allowing thoughts, emotions, and body sensations to arise and pass without clinging or resistance. This awareness acts as a steady anchor, providing a foundation for cultivating insight and self-understanding.
THOUGTHS
Thoughts, the first point of the triangle, represent the mental activity that constantly arises within the mind. With mindfulness, individuals learn to observe thoughts with curiosity and non-identification, recognizing their transient and ever-changing nature. By developing a relationship of detachment and clarity with thoughts, individuals can break free from their habitual patterns and gain a greater sense of mental freedom.
EMOTIONS
Emotions, the second point, encompass the rich tapestry of feelings that arise within us. Through mindfulness, individuals develop the capacity to directly experience and investigate emotions without being overwhelmed by them. By cultivating a kind and compassionate awareness of emotions, individuals can develop emotional resilience, skillfully navigate difficult emotions, and cultivate greater emotional well-being.
BODY SENSATIONS
The third point of the triangle is body sensations, which refer to the physical sensations that arise in the body in response to thoughts, emotions, and the environment. Mindfulness allows individuals to develop a heightened awareness of the body, observing sensations with curiosity and non-reactivity. This awareness of body sensations enables individuals to recognize and release physical tension, reconnect with the present moment, and cultivate a sense of embodiment and vitality.
The Triangle of Awareness emphasizes the interconnectedness of these three elements—thoughts, emotions, and body sensations—and how they shape our lived experience.
By developing a skillful and compassionate awareness of these aspects, individuals gain a deeper understanding of their inner landscape, fostering a sense of self-empowerment and resilience. Through the cultivation of mindfulness, individuals can harness the power of the Triangle of Awareness to develop insight, emotional well-being, and a greater sense of embodiment. By integrating mindfulness into daily life, individuals embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and open themselves to the richness and wholeness of each moment.
R.A.I.N.
** We will chat more about this exercise next week!! **
R.A.I.N. is a mindfulness practice popularized by Tara Brach, a renowned meditation teacher and psychologist. It is an acronym that stands for Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. R.A.I.N. is a simple and effective tool used to navigate difficult emotions and experiences with mindfulness and compassion.
1. Recognize: The first step in the R.A.I.N. practice is to recognize what is happening in your present experience. This involves acknowledging and becoming aware of your thoughts, emotions, bodily sensations, and any other aspects of your current experience. It's about pausing and bringing attention to what is going on within you.
2. Allow: After recognizing your experience, the next step is to allow it to be as it is, without trying to change or resist it. This step is about embracing a non-judgmental attitude and accepting your present experience with kindness and compassion. Allowing means giving yourself permission to feel what you feel without suppressing or avoiding it.
3. Investigate: The third step involves investigating your experience with a curious and compassionate attitude. This step encourages you to explore the deeper layers of your thoughts, emotions, and sensations. You can ask yourself questions like "What is this experience really about?" or "What am I believing about myself or others in this moment?" This investigation allows you to gain insight and understanding into the underlying causes and patterns of your experience.
4. Non-Self Identify involves investigating the question of who or what you believe yourself to be. It invites you to inquire into the transient and ever-changing nature of thoughts, emotions, and sensations, and to recognize that they do not define your true essence or identity. By observing the impermanent and impersonal aspects of experience, you cultivate a sense of non-attachment and reduce the tendency to identify with and cling to thoughts and emotions.
The R.A.I.N. practice can be used in various situations when challenging emotions or experiences arise, such as stress, anxiety, anger, or sadness. It is particularly useful for developing emotional resilience and self-awareness. By applying R.A.I.N., you develop the ability to hold your experiences with mindfulness, allowing them to unfold and transform naturally, rather than being overwhelmed or controlled by them.
CLASS 6 SUMMARY:
"The Brahma Vihara's: Four Aspects of the Heart"
Please continue with a loving kindness meditation this week
The Origin of the Brahma Viharas
The Brahma Viharas, often referred to as the "Divine Abodes" or "Sublime Attitudes," find their roots in the teachings of Gautama Buddha. These profound virtues are mentioned in several canonical texts, including the Pali Canon and the Tripitaka. The primary source of their integration into the Buddhist practice is found in the Karaniya Metta Sutta (also known as the Metta Sutta), where the Buddha first elucidated these four qualities.
Understanding the Four Immeasurables
The Four Immeasurables comprise four qualities that serve as a guiding light for practitioners on their path to spiritual growth and awakening:
A. Metta (Loving-kindness): Metta is the boundless and all-encompassing love and kindness towards oneself and all living beings. It involves the sincere wish for the happiness, well-being, and freedom from suffering of oneself and others. Metta is not conditioned by personal preferences or biases, as it transcends boundaries of race, religion, and social status.
B. Karuna (Compassion): Karuna is the empathetic understanding and heartfelt compassion for those who suffer. It is the willingness to actively alleviate the suffering of oneself and others. Karuna arises from the realization of the interconnectedness of all beings and the recognition of the universal nature of suffering.
C. Mudita (Empathetic Joy): Mudita is the ability to find joy and delight in the happiness and success of others, without envy or jealousy. This sublime attitude celebrates the accomplishments and well-being of all beings, contributing to a harmonious and supportive environment.
D. Upekkha (Equanimity): In the context of the Four Immeasurables, equanimity refers to a state of inner stability and composure. It does not imply indifference or apathy; rather, it is a poised and serene way of responding to the ups and downs of life. Practicing equanimity involves recognizing the impermanence of all phenomena and understanding that the happiness and suffering we experience are a result of our own actions and choices, known as karma.
Cultivating the Brahma Viharas
The practice of the Four Immeasurables begins with cultivating these qualities towards oneself and then expanding them to encompass all sentient beings. Some common methods used for developing the Brahma Viharas include:
A. Loving-kindness meditation: Practitioners focus on generating feelings of love and kindness towards themselves and others. By mentally repeating phrases like "May I be happy, may you be happy, may all beings be happy," the mind becomes attuned to unconditional love.
B. Compassion meditation: This practice involves contemplating the suffering and challenges faced by oneself and others. The intention is to foster a genuine sense of empathy and the desire to alleviate suffering wherever possible.
C. Empathetic joy meditation: Mudita meditation centers on rejoicing in the well-being and achievements of others. Practitioners develop a sense of interconnectedness and shared happiness, rejoicing in the success of all beings.
D. Equanimity meditation: Upekkha meditation helps practitioners to develop an equanimous mind, free from attachment and aversion. By observing the impermanence and interconnectedness of all phenomena, one cultivates a serene and balanced outlook.
The Significance of the Brahma Viharas
The practice of the Four Immeasurables holds immense significance in Buddhism for several reasons:
A. Enhancing interpersonal relationships: By developing loving-kindness, compassion, empathetic joy, and equanimity, practitioners foster harmonious and compassionate
interactions with others. This contributes to a more peaceful and supportive community.
B. Transforming negative emotions: The cultivation of the Brahma Viharas counteracts negative emotions such as anger, hatred, jealousy, and fear. As practitioners grow in these qualities, destructive emotions gradually diminish.
C. Building resilience: The Four Immeasurables provide a powerful foundation for coping with life's challenges and adversities. Developing compassion and equanimity helps individuals navigate difficulties with grace and inner strength.
D. Realizing interconnectedness: The practice of the Brahma Viharas reinforces the understanding that all beings are interconnected. By acknowledging this truth, practitioners develop a sense of responsibility towards the welfare of others.
Common Phrases for Each Aspect
*** Remember the "I" statements can be changed to "You" and "All" for the different categories.
1. Metta (Loving-kindness):
Metta, or loving-kindness, is a profound practice that involves generating boundless love and goodwill towards oneself and all sentient beings. When meditating on Metta, practitioners use specific phrases to cultivate and extend this unconditional love:
- "May I be well, happy, and peaceful."
- "May all beings be well, happy, and peaceful."
- "May I be free from suffering and its causes."
- "May all beings be free from suffering and its causes."
These phrases are repeated with genuine intention, gradually expanding the circle of loving-kindness from oneself to friends, family, acquaintances, strangers, and ultimately to all beings in the universe.
2. Karuna (Compassion):
Karuna, or compassion, is the ability to deeply understand and empathize with the suffering of oneself and others, coupled with the heartfelt wish to alleviate that suffering. In meditation, practitioners use phrases that cultivate compassion and the aspiration to bring relief to all beings:
- "May I be filled with compassion for myself and others."
- "May all beings be free from suffering and the causes of suffering."
- "May I actively work towards relieving the pain and struggles of others."
- "May all beings find solace and support during challenging times."
3. Mudita (Empathetic Joy):
Mudita, or empathetic joy, celebrates the happiness, success, and well-being of oneself and others. It involves rejoicing in the good fortune of others without any trace of envy or jealousy. When meditating on Mudita, practitioners use phrases that cultivate genuine joy and interconnectedness:
- "May my heart be filled with joy for the happiness of others."
- "May I delight in the success and achievements of all beings."
- "May the happiness of others contribute to our shared joy."
- "May I find happiness in the well-being of all sentient beings."
Through these phrases, practitioners develop an open heart that embraces the happiness of others as their own, cultivating a sense of unity and interconnectedness with all beings.
4. Upekkha (Equanimity): Merging Wisdom and Compassion:
Equanimity is not a cold or detached state of mind. Instead, it involves the harmonious integration of wisdom and compassion. The practitioner understands the impermanence and interconnectedness of all things, and this wisdom becomes the foundation for developing genuine love and compassion for all beings, regardless of their actions or circumstances.
Upekkha is about having a compassionate heart that embraces all beings with understanding and unconditional love, even when they harm themselves through unskillful actions. The practitioner recognizes the inherent potential for growth and awakening in every being and holds space for their transformation without losing the balance of equanimity.
- "May I remain equanimous amidst the changing tides of life."
- "May I accept the impermanence of all phenomena with grace."
- "May I cultivate a mind free from bias and preference."
- "May I treat all beings with equal compassion and understanding."
These phrases help practitioners develop resilience and acceptance, allowing them to face life's challenges with serenity and wisdom.
CLASS 7 SUMMARY:
"The Mindfulness of Mind"
Homework
Here are two meditations that help to investigate the mind. Listen to them this week and you can also pay attention to the thoughts throughout the day of course.
The Fourth Foundation of Mindfulness: Mindfulness of Mental Formations
In the practice of mindfulness, there are four foundations that serve as pillars for developing a deep and transformative understanding of our lived experience. These foundations are essential in cultivating self-awareness, wisdom, and compassion. The fourth foundation, known as "Mindfulness of Mental Formations," is a profound exploration of the workings of the mind and the intricate interplay of thoughts, emotions, and mental states.
Understanding Mental Formations
Mental formations, also known as mental factors, refer to the various states and activities of the mind that arise in response to stimuli. They encompass thoughts, ,intentions, perceptions, volitions, and other mental processes that arise in our consciousness. Mental formations are not permanent entities; they are impermanent and constantly changing. They arise and cease in dependence on various conditions, making them subject to the law of impermanence.
The Role of Mindfulness
Mindfulness, in the context of mental formations, involves bringing a non-judgmental, present-moment awareness to the arising and passing of these mental states. It is the quality of being fully attentive and receptive to the ever-changing landscape of our thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them. By observing mental formations with mindfulness, we develop insight into their transient nature, their causes and conditions, and their impact on our overall well-being.
Recognizing the Nature of Thoughts
The practice of mindfulness of mental formations invites us to observe our thoughts as they arise, without clinging to or suppressing them. It encourages a sense of curiosity and inquiry, rather than identifying with the content of our thoughts. By developing this non-reactive stance, we gain insight into the impermanence and impersonal nature of thoughts. We see that they are transient events passing through our consciousness, not solid aspects of our identity.
Cultivating Equanimity
Through mindfulness of mental formations, we cultivate equanimity—a balanced and unbiased state of mind. Equanimity allows us to meet all mental formations with a sense of calm and clarity, regardless of whether they are pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. It helps us to recognize the impermanent and conditioned nature of mental states and to respond wisely rather than react impulsively. Equanimity allows us to break free from habitual patterns of clinging or aversion, leading to greater freedom and inner peace.
Understanding the Conditions and Causes
One of the key insights gained through mindfulness of mental formations is an understanding of the conditions and causes that give rise to specific thoughts and emotions. By observing our mental landscape, we start to notice the interconnected web of factors that contribute to the arising of various mental states. We become aware of the influence of our environment, past experiences, and current circumstances on our thoughts and emotions. This insight enables us to respond with compassion and discernment, rather than blindly reacting to our mental formations.
Transforming Unwholesome Mental States
Mindfulness of mental formations provides us with an opportunity to investigate and transform unwholesome mental states. When we are mindful of negative thoughts and emotions, we can examine their underlying causes and see how they impact our well-being and relationships. This awareness empowers us to consciously choose a skillful response rather than being carried away by harmful patterns. By cultivating mindfulness, we develop the ability to let go of unwholesome mental formations and cultivate wholesome ones, leading to greater inner harmony and happiness.
Cultivating Positive Mental Formations
Mindfulness of mental formations is not limited to observing negative or unwholesome states; it also invites us to cultivate positive mental formations. By mindfully nurturing wholesome thoughts, emotions, and intentions, we can enhance our well-being and contribute positively to our relationships and the world around us. Through the practice of mindfulness, we can cultivate qualities such as loving-kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity, fostering a greater sense of connection and interdependence with all beings.
Integration into Daily Life
Mindfulness of mental formations is not confined to formal meditation practice; it is meant to be integrated into our daily lives. As we develop the habit of observing our mental states with mindfulness, we become more attuned to the subtleties of our thoughts and emotions throughout the day. This awareness provides valuable insights into our habits, tendencies, and areas for growth. With time and practice, mindfulness of mental formations becomes a natural and effortless way of being, enriching our
experience of life in profound ways.
The fourth foundation of mindfulness, mindfulness of mental formations, invites us to explore the intricate workings of our thoughts, emotions, and mental states. By cultivating mindfulness in relation to these mental formations, we develop insight, wisdom, and compassion.
We learn to meet our experiences with equanimity, recognize their causes and conditions, and transform unwholesome mental states into wholesome ones. As we integrate this practice into our daily lives, we embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery and liberation, ultimately experiencing greater peace, happiness, and connectedness.
Mindfulness of Mind in Tibetan Buddhism
In the Tibetan Buddhist tradition, particular emphasis is placed on the nature of mind, its characteristics, and its potential. Mindfulness of mind entails observing the nature, quality, and state of the mind in the present moment. This means recognizing when the mind is lustful, angry, deluded, contracted, distracted, expansive, concentrated, etc.
The Tibetan approach often dovetails with Mahamudra and Dzogchen practices, which emphasize direct recognition of the nature of mind – its clarity and emptiness. Within these traditions, there's an encouragement to directly recognize and rest in the natural, uncontrived state of mind, observing its qualities without becoming ensnared by its content.
Vipassana and Mindfulness of Mind
Vipassana, often translated as "insight meditation," is a technique that helps practitioners gain direct insight into the nature of reality. It involves the systematic and continuous observation of the changing nature of phenomena, leading to a deep understanding of impermanence, suffering, and the lack of inherent self.
When applying vipassana to the third foundation of mindfulness, one becomes acutely aware of the arising and passing away of various states of mind, their transient nature, and the lack of any permanent, unchanging entity behind them.
By consistently practicing this observation, one gains insight into the impersonal and changing nature of mental states. This insight serves to liberate one from identifying too strongly with the mind or its content, ultimately leading towards enlightenment.
Vipassana: A Deeper Look
Vipassana, "insight meditation," is an ancient meditative practice that originated in India and plays a central role in the Theravada Buddhist tradition. The primary objective of vipassana is to cultivate deep personal insight into the three marks of existence: impermanence (anicca), suffering (dukkha), and the non-self (anatta). This profound recognition aids in breaking the cycle of suffering and rebirth and paves the path to enlightenment or Nibbana.
Origins and Historical Context
The foundations of vipassana can be traced back to the teachings of Siddhartha Gautama, the Buddha, more than 2500 years ago. As outlined in the Satipatthana Sutta, the Buddha presented a systematic approach to cultivating mindfulness and insight. Vipassana, along with Samatha (calm-abiding meditation), forms the twin pillars of Buddhist meditation.
While Samatha meditation aims at achieving concentration and tranquility, Vipassana focuses on discernment and deep understanding.
Over centuries, various schools and traditions developed their methods and interpretations of vipassana, but the core essence remains—directly observing one's own experiences to understand the true nature of reality.
The Practice
A standard vipassana meditation session often begins with mindfulness of breathing. As the practitioner becomes anchored in the present moment, their awareness extends to bodily sensations, thoughts, and emotions. By continuously and objectively observing these phenomena, one begins to notice the impermanent, unsatisfactory, and selfless nature of existence.
Impermanence (anicca): As practitioners observe their thoughts, emotions, and sensations, they'll see that everything arises and ceases continually. Even seemingly stable objects or experiences, upon close observation, are in a state of flux. Recognizing this impermanence brings about a radical shift in perspective, reducing attachment to transient things.
Suffering (dukkha): Through meditation, one sees that clinging to or resisting any experience causes suffering. This clinging arises from our habitual tendencies to grasp pleasant experiences and reject unpleasant ones. By understanding the inherent unsatisfactoriness of existence, one begins to let go of these attachments and aversions.
Non-self (anatta): Perhaps the most challenging insight to grasp is the doctrine of non-self. Through vipassana, one realizes that there's no permanent, unchanging self behind the continuous flow of experiences. This insight is revolutionary and dispels the illusion of ego or a separate self.